Jesus said if we are lukewarm He will spit us out of His mouth. But people usually think that someday eventually they can be hot especially when their lives dont represent their King. But the question is why not be hot now ? Why not burn for Jesus ? All it takes is a choice to do so.
Many christians think God needs our love to feel loved or that He made us because He needed someone. No He is Love Himself, there is no need in love, love is love, its a giving up of one self for sake of God and others.
There can be Christians who go to church all their lives and there will be no difference between them and the ones who do not have Christ. Its not about going to the Church its about being THE BODY OF CHRIST, looking exactly like Him, being His hands and feet and heart.
There is no person here on earth who has been put here for your needs. You are to be fulfilled only by your Father in Heaven. So never place that demand or expectation on another person as you are not here on earth to live at their expense.
Friends get free from yourself first and then enjoy the freedom to be free from others. Only what God says about you should matter.
When you get started with healing training you can be given methods but that doesnt mean these are the only ways to pray for healing. They are only starting points and as time goes on you ought to find something that works for you.