This is one mindset held by many Christians who do not find themselves fellowshipping anymore with other brothers and sisters and it is a mindset of bondage. Many Christians use this excuse to cop out from fellowship or to hop from one church to another to find love and needs they want to be met. But the question is very simple if the “Church” or the local body that you were so hurt by knew who they are in Christ, would they hurt you that way ? An answer for you to give to yourself. And when will you stop going to fellowship for your needs and to get from people when it was all about being filled with Him and pouring yourself out for God’s people and His work ? That is also another question for you to answer.