It’s easy to get negative because you get beat down. You go through a few disappointments and it’s easy to stay in that negative frame of mind.
But let all those that put their trust in thee rejoice: let them ever shout for joy, because thou defendest them:let them also that love thy name be joyful in
Psalms 37:4 Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. Matthew 11:30. Father God is telling us His yoke is easy and His burden is life.
Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand
For a day in thy courts is better than a thousand. I had rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God, than to dwell in the tents of wickedness. Psalms 84:10