MY PARTNER IS HOLDING ME BACK, HOW TO PROCEED ?

MY PARTNER IS HOLDING ME BACK, HOW TO PROCEED ?

Most of the Church wont agree with this but if you need your spouse or one God has called you with towards marriage to be something for you to be ok it is a form of idolatry. We Christians have been created to depend only on the Lord, He only is the fullness, so how can we find ourselves needing our spouses to be at a certain place or level in Christ for us to be able to move forward in life and in Christ ?